Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Ordinary Spirituality


Here we are friends, in all our glory. 
Have a look.
There's nothing photoshopped about me at all.
Those are my authentic flaring nostrils
my wrinkled brow
and the tell tale signs of aging under my eyes.

Those are also my biceps, triceps and deltoids
made by God, me, and the gym.
Thank you very much.

That sense of humor behind the curtain is all mine.
The reluctant willingness to be vulnerable 
behind the curtain is me too.

The good and the bad, if one has a perception of either.

I've recently gotten quite in touch
with how appearances
cost us the chance to be vulnerable enough to connect.

With all the stardust around the spiritual aspect of
"we are all one"
it seems to me we ought not overlook
how sharing the experience of being human
can connect us to another
so that we don't feel alone.

We are all perfect in our imperfection,
We can
experience the connection 
of that truth
by being willing to be vulnerable
and sharing our 
human experience.

Call it Ordinary Spirituality,
if you will.

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Perhaps everything that frightens us is,
in its deepest essence, 
something helpless that wants our love.  
So you must not be frightened 
if a sadness rises before you 
larger than any you’ve ever seen, 
if an anxiety 
like light and cloud shadows 
moves over your hands 
and everything that you do. 
You must realize that something has happened to you; 
that life has not forgotten you; 
it holds you in its hands and will not let you fall. 
Why do you want to shut out of your life 
any uneasiness, 
any miseries, 
or any depressions? 
For after all, 
you do not know what work 
these conditions are doing inside you.” 
Rainer Maria Rilke

Monday, March 28, 2011

Who's 90?

I spent the afternoon Saturday
enjoying my Aunt Zelma's
90th birthday party.





 Party on chicas!







 Brandon and his boyfriend Nile.





Chuck and his partner Royd.
 Where'd all these gay people come from?
:-) 








Etta Grace.  
Wonder where she gets that attitude?





Maybe from her Hot Mess Mother?
Girlie McClains.
Not related to Shirley MacLaine. 

I don't think it's a bad thing 
to come from a good looking, 
well preserved family.
I'm just saying.



 Zelma and her daughters.
It was a wonderful party.
I grow ever more grateful
each time I get to be with them,
that I've reconnected
and been restored
to such loving family. 

Whole set is here
for the family
who's not on Facebook.
;-)

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Betrayal


... betrayal of yourself in order not to betray another
is betrayal nonetheless. 
It is the Highest Betrayal.

You are not avoiding betrayal 
by betraying yourself, 
you are merely choosing whom to betray. 
In fact, 
there is no such thing as "betrayal."
There is only the truth, 
finally spoken.

That is not betrayal at all. 
That is love. 
For another,
and for yourself. 
Can you love that much?
~Neale Donald Walsh

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

SxByeBye Part II

 
Denise is an aspiring young actress.
She was the other half of of my SxByeBye shoot
along with O'Ryan last Friday.

LOVE that Latin flavor going on here!
She's a pretty young woman.
I hope she knows it!
:-)



Monday, March 21, 2011

SxByeBye

 Well.
I'm glad that's over.

I found myself downtown for the 
Happy Hour last Saturday.
That was fun!

Aaaand...
This Friday, 
I momentarily lost my mind.
I asked my clients
to meet me at a downtown location
for a shoot.
OHMYFREEKINBAGOFTITSINHELL!!!

We found a semi un-hectic spot
at The George Carver Museum.
Great place, actually, for a photo shoot.

OK.

Now, I don't have a Client of The Week feature,
but if I did, I'd give O'Ryan and Denise the points.
Thanks to O'Ryan and Denise 
for their patience and flexibility!
Here's O'Ryan.
More on Denise later. :-)

Saturday, March 19, 2011

Extreme Super Moon


"Extreme Super Moon" 
That sounds like a big sale or something.
"EXTREME SUPER SAVINGS..."
Yeah, well.
I'm not so into night photography, 
so this is grainy and stuff as my moon photos usually are.
All the same, it's the closest the moon 
will be to us for another 20 years.
It's also in my sign of Virgo.

My "Extreme Super Moon" horoscope:
"A major cycle is ending for you at this Full Moon, Virgo. 
You're being called to use your healing powers
to aid someone's transition or help resolve a power struggle..." 

I've been on one of the most extraordinary 
cycles of my life
in the last couple of years.
Wonder if that's what's ending...
Hmmmm...

You can get your Super Moon horoscope here.

Here's one of my favorite personal photos of the moon:


Sweet dreams...

Friday, March 18, 2011

Client of The Week


Yeah, yeah, I know.
I don't have a client of the week feature, 
but if I did,
I'd pick Jay.

Jay is a beautiful man,
inside and out.
He and his wife Debbie 
are from the wilds of Texas near Bandera.  ;-)
They joined me last Saturday for a shoot
but...
it was ferociously windy.

It was early morning,
we were out in a beautiful park
and there was no way
we were going to get usable shots.

Until...
I noticed an abandoned building (read: shelter from the wind)
with terrific covered shade (read: even lighting).
We high tailed our disheveled windblown selves right over.

And realized just exactly
how perfect it was 
when we got there.

Nope.  I didn't vandalize the building.  That was already there.

Debbie and Jay served up 
delicious, inspiring conversation,
and they're up to big, bold things.
I look forward to how that unfolds for them!
It's great to meet kindred spirits.


Thursday, March 17, 2011

USS Ronald Reagan


I'm not generally patriotic,
but my cousin Kevin
(no, not the one from The Who's Tommy)
is in Japan
being a bright example of the light
that Americans can shine
in times of trouble for others.
I'm very proud of him.


and for added measure, 
a repost 
of one of my favorite photos of the flag.




Monday, March 14, 2011

SxSW Interactive Kicks Off , AGLIFF Volunteer Appreciation Party, Cell Phones

Had a blast at the AGLIFF Volunteer Appreciation Party!

Think I'll also cruise downtown and enjoy some Frank when it's not so crowded and hot.  Frank was once the home of The Boathouse, directly across the street from the Kiss and Fly, once home to Tex's Colorado (and later, Halls) the first gay bar I ever entered, er, uhm, without being chased out by a bouncer because I was under age. Perhaps the only other person who remembers these bars besides me is Michael Barnes.

Who do you think Michael is trying to call?
Who's Dolce calling?
How about this guy?
Is this guy sending a text to these guys below?




It's the new way of exchanging phone numbers. THAT'S what it is.



Here are some shots of people who weren't on their cell phones.

Jake and Yvonne
Who Are These People?
Bartenders
Hot Dog...
Dolce and... well, now I've forgotten
That's it for today.
I gotta go check my phone messages.

Thursday, March 10, 2011

SxSW, and So It Begins


A quick nod to SxSW 
with a pair of groovy boots 
on a beautiful set of red drums.

Further, 
a link to the aaaaaaaaaaaaamAzing Adele, 
21 year old wonder girl from England.
HOT HOT song.  
It peaked at number one in Belgium, Germany, Italy, 
the Netherlands and Switzerland, 
and became a top ten hit in Austria, Denmark, 
Ireland, New Zealand, and Norway.

Adele was here for SxSW in 2008.
Damn that I missed her then.

And what young musical idol-ettes
do we have here in America this year?
Ke$ha
She's not doing SxSW.

Happy Weekend!

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Art

Ya think scenes like this will be artifact 
in public schools
here in Texas soon?
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"A musician must make music,
an artist must paint,
a poet must write,
if he is to be ultimately at peace with himself."
~Abraham Maslow

Sunday, March 6, 2011

...exploring the domains of love...


"So often, where the spiritual life is concerned, 
we develop a warrior stance. 
We make our prayer into a type of crusade. 
We discipline ourselves to prayer. 
We pray through the dryness, no matter what. 
This is all well and good, 
provided it does not overshadow the other side. 
It can be downright pleasurable to pray, 
to rest in God, 
to leisurely explore the domains of love, 
like enjoying a long afternoon of foreplay."
~Regina Sara Ryan

Friday, March 4, 2011

Beloved


I haven't met you,
but I Know you,
beloved.

Until we meet,
the Beloved and I
enjoy you on our own,
beloved.

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Client Of The Week


I don't have a Client of The Week feature, 
but if I did,
Helena would be the Client of The Week.

Helena apparently loves a good quote
as much as I do. Here's one I share from
her Facebook page:

"Ordinary riches can be stolen,
real riches cannot.
In your soul are infinitely precious things
that cannot be taken from you."
~Oscar Wilde

And a quote from Helena herself: 
"if people were meant to pop out of bed, we'd all sleep in toasters."

Amen Sistah...

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Why You Are Here


...Without knowing who you are 
and why you are here, 
life has no meaning.
 
Seek, then, to study the questions. 
Work to experience the grandest answers. 
Who You Are
is an Individuation of Divinity. 
Why you are here 
is to demonstrate that.
~Neale Donald Walsh

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

AGLIFF Oscar Party Part II - The Volunteers

More AGLIFF fun - The Volunteers











(p.s. Love the Gary Fong Lightsphere diffuser... used in all these shots.)